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Man : Pre Knothood (Marriage)

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Marriage makes human different from other social beings. Marriage (also called matrimony or wedlock) is a social union or legal contract between people called spouses that create kinship . The preparation involves multi-dimensional aspect. The first step in the marriage preparation process is that a person does some introspection to see if they are really ready for marriage. Additionally, seeking to get married should have a guardian (parents) involved in the process that will oversee and guide the couple. Marriage is the union of more than just two individuals; it is bringing together two families , and thus the process should include both families. Respect for parents: seeking and heeding their advice, when selecting a spouse. A wisdom knowledgeable mediator acting as mentor as a mentor and opening their eyes to the reality of marriage. A knowledgeable person trusted by both parties is an asset to a couple before the wedding, since he /she could be co

Man : Sole Provider (Single Parent)

A single parent usually refers to a parent day to day responsibilities in raising of the child or children,  the dominant caregiver who is not living with a spouse or partner. Historically death of a partner was a major cause of single parenting. Single parenting can result from separation or divorce of a couple with children. The financial and emotional responsibilities of single parents are indeed very great. It is a great strained to the physical emotional of single parents. Self-pity and depression are the main caused of stress of being single parents. Below are some concerned: A.    General Have a positive outlook on life - This step applies to anyone in any situation . o    To counter the many challenges, struggles: life skill management need to be instilled  : a positive attitude. Be patient - patience is the number one rule when it comes to kids . o    Don’t worry about the nitty gritty of the small kids - Sp

Man : Overzealous Mothers (Overprotective Mothers)

Overzealous mothers  is simply playing the only role she knows, whereas, she doesn't see it as being bossy or treating you like a child, she sees it as doing what all good Mothers do, nurture, love, encourage (give advice whether needed or not), this is all she knows. Possible explanations for what looks like controlling behavior              §   Maybe she is lonesome o    and can’t admit it to herself.               §   Maybe she is grieving .               §   Maybe she has an anxiety disorder . o    People with social phobia are fearful of being judged by others or fearful that they will embarrass themselves in some way if they are among people who don’t know them well.               §   Maybe she really is sick o    but either doesn’t want to face it herself or doesn’t want to burden you. You don’t see her every minute of every day.               §   Maybe she is pointing out things that you don’t want to admit might be true . o    Ha